Practical Aspects of Confession

Of all the topics I have spoken on the past two weeks, the topic of confession has gotten the most attention -- maybe because it is so counter cultural for us. I have talked to many folks who are working through the truth of James 5:16 and practically apply it to their Christian walk. Here are a few pointers to help guide you along the way to the freedom found here:

1. It is indeed confession. It is not "sharing". Our attitude must be one of repentance as we speak humbly to another person.

2. The purpose of the one hearing the confession is of "forgiver", not "hand patter". In other words, when someone shares their confession, you should respond with a statement like "because Jesus forgives you, I forgive you. Now live in freedom from your sin" rather than "oh, life is hard isn't it, try to do better."

3. Remember that as we confess, we realize the reality that we are a community of sinners who need forgiveness -- not just devout people who have it completely together. Don't get shocked or judgmental.

4. After confession, help one another to live in that new found freedom through accountability, no matter how hard or awkward it may seem at first. Check up with each other regularly. Don't let someone fall back into sin waiting for you to ask how they are doing. If you don't ask, it will feel like judgment and avoidance. You want to be sure to show compassion and care and acceptance of them.

5. Don't always be the one hearing confessions, humble yourself with someone too and be sure you're being freed from sin too.

Let's keep moving deeper -- deeper into freedom and community.