
Honesty is an interesting thing. If someone asked you, "are you an honest person?" most of us would say that we are. Yet I wonder if we actually answer that question based on a "high percentage of honesty" -- "I'm being mostly honest. That's almost the truth". See? What I mean is this - let's say that I ask you to share with me the complete truth about a situation so that I can help you come up with a solution. If you tell me 90% of the facts and leave out 10%, then my response to the situation is not at all accurate. It really isn't going to benefit you, because I am answering based upon incomplete truth.
As Christians, we do this. I see it nearly every day in the church. We don't let people know us completely, we don't tell everything about ourselves because we're afraid that one small percentage of information we leave out, if told might cause someone to reject us or judge us -- so we say we're being honest, we say we're open to accountability, but in reality, we are not.
How can we come along side a brother or sister in Christ and help them in their Christian growth and walk if we are not starting from the fundamental place of honesty?
I guess what I'm advocating is for us to "take the chance", get open, get honest, get real in one another's lives or we'll never build relationships that help us to truly grow and develop. We will also never know whether those that are closest to us love us for all of who we are or just for that part that we have revealed to them. Sounds like an opportunity for the devil to get in and isolate us from others so that he can impact our thinking -- even if it's just that small 10%.
As Christians, we do this. I see it nearly every day in the church. We don't let people know us completely, we don't tell everything about ourselves because we're afraid that one small percentage of information we leave out, if told might cause someone to reject us or judge us -- so we say we're being honest, we say we're open to accountability, but in reality, we are not.
How can we come along side a brother or sister in Christ and help them in their Christian growth and walk if we are not starting from the fundamental place of honesty?
I guess what I'm advocating is for us to "take the chance", get open, get honest, get real in one another's lives or we'll never build relationships that help us to truly grow and develop. We will also never know whether those that are closest to us love us for all of who we are or just for that part that we have revealed to them. Sounds like an opportunity for the devil to get in and isolate us from others so that he can impact our thinking -- even if it's just that small 10%.